“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
— Ephesians 4:29 (NIV)
Today marks the 30th day since I began blogging—and this is my 24th post. It feels surreal to see how far this space has come in just a month. While I still write mostly in private and quiet corners of the internet, I was deeply moved during my quiet time this morning to reflect on something important: how do we ensure that our writing, our platforms, and even our creative talents are truly serving God and serving others?
I was reminded of Ephesians 4:29. This verse from Apostle Paul reminds us that as believers, we are called to speak life—words that are helpful, uplifting, and beneficial to those who listen. In a world filled with noise, this call to intentional speech is a powerful anchor for anyone who writes, teaches, speaks, or creates.
And so today, I want to share with you what keeps me grounded in this blogging journey. Whether you’re a fellow writer, a creative, or someone who simply wants to glorify God through what you do—may these reflections help you stay anchored.
1. Start with the Source: Be Filled Before You Pour
Before we write anything, before we try to encourage others—we must first fill ourselves. And not just with ideas or content plans, but with the Living Water—Jesus Himself.
Many of my blogs begin in quiet mornings with the Lord. Sometimes, it’s from a Bible verse I just read or a reflection I journaled. Often, the words I end up writing are first processed in prayer—through moments of doubt, gratitude, or even confusion.
It’s really difficult to pour out encouragement when we ourselves are running on empty. Even in work or ministry, we can feel dry or scattered when we haven’t spent time being nourished first.
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
— Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)
Just like any task, preparation matters—not just preparing outlines or topics, but preparing our hearts. Because everything flows from what’s stored within. And when we draw near to God first, the fruit of our work naturally reflects Him.
Reflection Question:
→ Are you starting your day and your work rooted in time with the Lord? What helps you fill up before you pour out?
2. Focus on the Reader, Not Just Yourself
Writing is a personal journey—but when done for ministry, it becomes a service. And this is a crucial heart-check I often come back to: Is this blog post about me, or is it for the person I want to encourage?
Of course, authenticity matters. Sharing your honest struggles, emotions, and testimony builds connection. But I’ve learned to ask: How will this help the reader? Will it build them up, comfort them, challenge them, or lead them closer to Christ?
There were moments I found myself too caught up in my own emotions while writing—and forgot who I was writing for. Paul reminds us that our words should serve a purpose: “building others up according to their needs.”
You can try picturing your audience—a friend, a churchmate, someone struggling in silence. Speak to them gently, as if you’re having a conversation. You never know who might need exactly what you’re writing today.
“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.”
— 1 Peter 4:10 (NIV)
Even if you feel like your words are small or unpolished—if they are spoken with the heart to serve, they are not worthless. God uses even the most ordinary offering when surrendered to Him.
Reflection Question:
→ How can your words today serve someone else’s need?
3. Discipline Over Perfection: Stay Faithful, Not Flawless
I started this blog with a 30-day writing commitment—not to go viral or gain followers, but to grow in faithfulness. I haven’t written a perfect 30 out of 30 posts. I missed days. Life happened. But I showed up again—and that matters.
What helped me reach this 24th post wasn’t creativity alone. It was discipline—choosing to write even when I didn’t feel like it. Even when the words didn’t flow as easily.
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
— Galatians 6:9 (NIV)
There were days I was tempted to delay, to focus on something else. But showing up—even imperfectly—is a form of worship too. Our faithfulness in the little things reflects a heart that trusts God in the process.
This season has reminded me: the goal isn’t perfection. The goal is obedience and trust. As I continue writing, I’m learning to offer each post to God—not as a finished masterpiece, but as a surrendered seed. He will grow it in His time.
Reflection Question:
→ What does it look like for you to remain faithful in the calling God placed on your heart, even when you feel inconsistent?
Bonus: The Quiet Gift of Journaling
Aside from blogging, personal journaling has helped me process so much of what I’m learning from Scripture. Some of my posts were born from journal entries written in moments of anxiety or reflection. It has become a way for me to linger longer in the Word—and extend my conversations with God.
Journaling helps me write from a place of processed emotions, not raw reaction. It reminds me of what God said. It helps me trace His hand even in the small things.
If you’re someone who wants to write or speak more clearly about your faith—consider starting with journaling.
Don’t underestimate the power of writing for an audience of One.
Final Encouragement
Whether you’re writing blog posts, singing songs, creating content, or simply sharing your story with a friend—your words can be used for God’s glory. When anchored in Scripture and offered with love, even simple words can bring light to someone’s darkness.
Your labor is not in vain. Stay faithful, stay rooted, and always come back to the Source.
“Whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”
— Colossians 3:17 (NIV)
Reflection Questions:
- In what ways can I use my words today to build others up?
- What does it mean for me to write or create as worship?
- Am I more focused on results or on faithfulness?
- What truth from God’s Word do I need to carry into my next creative step?
Let’s Encourage One Another
If this post encouraged you or gave you something to reflect on, I’d love to hear from you! Feel free to leave a comment below, whether it’s a takeaway, a prayer request, or a verse that’s speaking to you lately. Your story might just bless someone else who reads it, too.
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Faithfully,
Yani 💛
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